I'm Free! I'm Free!

No, I'm not getting divorced.  :)

I haven't blogged about it (at least that I can remember), and this could be part of why I haven't blogged much lately.  I have a coworker who has been diagnosed bipolar.  Shortly after she came to work in my office (and prior to diagnosis), she asked me a question.  It was a very pointed, personal question, and seemingly came out of the blue.  She asked me if I was a swinger.  I was confused as to what would have led her to that conclusion.  I told her that, yes, I was (if you want to call it that), but wondered how she came upon the idea to ask me. Turns out, she had looked at some pictures on Facebook of a group convention that I went to.  She then searched that site about me (although my username is not my real name there) and found me.  Then, she either read through MANY postings, or clicked on my blog link here (I'm guessing the latter).  So, in effect, she admitted to stalking me online.  I admitted the truth because I don't have anything to hide (and hiding it could cause me to lose my job), and pretty much moved on.

Over time, she has become more unstable.  She had asked me if I felt she was, that I should tell her.  So I did.  That got me a complaint from her to HR, accusing me, essentially, of harassment (even though I had been her staunchest defender to others who had issues working with her).  I was cleared of wrongdoing today, which makes me rather happy.  She also told me that she is leaving in a couple of weeks.  I wish her well (and if she's reading this - it's true).  Still, it takes a load off my chest.  I don't have to deal with the stress of tiptoeing around her, being careful of my words (especially now that she went to HR).  I feel a little bit guilty that I was smiling (small smile) with the news. 

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In other news - I've become a World of Warcraft addict.  Yes, it's true.  I have a Night Elf Druid (Balance/Resto) and a Dwarf Mage (Frost/Arcane).  I'm leveling up my mage at the moment and am having an absolute blast.  I've been playing with a friend in the guild, and he wants to do PvP with our toons that are at the same level. I agreed to do it, but I really want to level up the mage more.  I'm enjoying it too much.  I have a feeling I'm going to have to level up another toon just so I can continue goofing around with her (although I found out last week that you can turn off leveling up, xp wise, so I may just do that). 

Playing WoW takes up a lot of my time, but I find it more fun than just reading the internet.  I've pretty much stepped away from everything/anything hotwife related.  I haven't played in that way in a couple of years, and I find that I don't miss it.  I know my husband does, and he can still play.  I've never had as strong a libido as he does, so I've always told him that he can go play, but he'd rather both of us play.  He had an opportunity the other day (kid and I were in D.C. on a school trip), but it fell through before they could get too far.  We'll see how things go on that front.

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I guess that's all I'm going to impart on that front.  Gotta go log into WoW.  If you're on the Feathermoon server, I'm agmystere/agmyst.  Send me a whisper.